Where we cast our gaze

Where to look when we are dancing. We can be looking at the floor, down at our feet or at the mirror ball. Some are nervous about looking at our partner, however, it is not great dancing with someone that is looking at those around them a lot. Sometimes gauging approval, sometimes distracted, sometimes yearning to dance with someone else. Dancing with all incorporates making your best effort with everyone you dance with.

I shall point out a problem in dancing classes. Followers keep looking at the teacher when learning a move. They will be trying to stay in sync with the teacher’s follower not their own leader in front of them. Wait for your leader. Follow your leader not the demonstrator. It doesn’t matter if you end a few seconds before or a few seconds after the teacher. It is best to be synchronised with your partner rather than the teacher.