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We dance in close quarters with one another. I always brush my teeth before I set out and wear a little deodorant. Some bring a change of clothes. After a few dances do the sniff under the armpits test.

Dance with all is what I preach. Everyone. I have never refused to dance with someone, not once, never in twenty years of dancing. If people know that they won’t be turned down, they become less shy about asking people for a dance.

Be generous is the motto in this dance. Being generous and understanding of those starting out. They may not have as many exciting moves as the others, but with your support they will get better and better.

If you are gripping someone's hand with the same kind of force you use on one of these exercise grip devices, you are doing it all wrong. Some beginners have a notoriously feeble grip leading to the hold slipping away. Both parties need a hold on each other to make it work. Some places insist on no thumbs, others encourage it. You can use thumbs but keep the grip light. The other person should always be able to get out of your hold easily if they wanted to. So, don't surround someone's hand with your grip.

Dress to impress is ideal, but there is no dress code. Invest in a few new things to wear. It helps.

For a start this is dancing not dating. Kissing is fraught with dangers. Some like to be kissed. Some really do not. Some seem to be fine with it, but they just don t want to make a fuss. Being over familiar can be unwelcome.

Leans, dips, and drops are often performed. Aerial moves are not permitted. Never perform a lean without asking first. Simply say "Lean?" beforehand. Some have bad backs and can't do leans. Never begin the lean until you feel the lead, else you will end up in a pile on the floor. Correct methods will be taught in great detail for those wanting to do them.

If you stumble on a magnificent track, then post it on the Instagram account max_jive. The music is varied. From fast tracks, modern funky, 80 s, rock to blues for slow expressive dancing.

The aim is to find that balance between having fun and taking it seriously. We aspire to get pairs dancing as one.

Some have recommended don't drink and dance. I say, what better thing is there than dancing, having a few beers, great music and having fun. Most come to the conclusion that in life, moderation is key.